Ready for action! Yes the hands on hips non verbal is a wife standing at the door hands on hips as the husband staggers down the path on pay day... oh ok those days are over but you get my meaning. Which one is more aggressive!
Whats interesting is that their are different messages, just depends the way they are standing of course some are more subtle ways of saying I am ready willing and able. They can be directing their attention to YOU. This position indicates they are really into you.